Meeting new people at college or graduate school is exciting, but it also requires caution.
Whether it’s the first “match” or an in-person meeting, remember: your safety always comes first.

Although we cannot control the actions of others, there are steps you can take to enjoy Umatch in a safer and more relaxed way.

Online Safety

Do not send money or banking information

Even if someone claims to be going through an emergency, do not send money via PIX, bank transfers, or other means.
Never share information like passwords, verification codes, or your card details.

Protect your personal information

Do not reveal the address of your shared apartment, dormitory, or residence, nor your routine at university (like class schedules or internship hours).
If you have children, avoid sharing information about them, even if it seems like casual conversation.

Keep conversations on Umatch

While getting to know someone, prefer to exchange messages within Umatch.
This helps maintain safety and allows you to report any suspicious behavior.

Be cautious of distant profiles

Be wary of people who claim to study at your university but are “traveling” or “stuck” somewhere else and ask for financial help.
If the person avoids video calls or in-person meetings, it could be a scam.

Report any strange behavior

Examples of situations that should be reported:

• Requests for money or financial favors

• Fake profiles or minors

• Offensive messages or harassment

• Inappropriate behavior at parties, academic events, or off-campus

Safety in In-Person Meetings

Don't rush

Exchange plenty of messages before scheduling a meeting.
If possible, make a video call first to confirm who the person is.

Choose busy locations

Prefer coffee shops, bars near campus, cultural events on campus, or public places in the city.
Avoid initial meetings in shared apartments, dormitories, or private residences.

Inform someone about your plans

Tell a friend or classmate where you are going and with whom.
Keep your phone charged and with signal.

Control your transportation

If possible, go with your own means of transport or use ride-sharing apps.
This way, you can leave at any moment if you do not feel comfortable.

Know your limits

Alcohol and other substances can affect your perception.
At university parties, refuse pressure to consume more than you want.

Keep an eye on drinks and belongings

Never leave your drink unattended at parties or bars.
Accept drinks only from bartenders or waiters.

If you don't feel well, leave

It is 100% acceptable to end the meeting early if something seems off.
If you are at an event on campus, look for security or colleagues.

3. Travels and the LGBTQ+ Community

If you travel for conferences, exchanges, or academic weeks, research the laws and safety at your destination — especially if you are part of the LGBTQ+ community.
In risky locations, consider hiding your profile on Umatch.

4. Sexual Health and Consent

Protect yourself

Use condoms and, whenever possible, stay up to date with HPV and hepatitis vaccines.

Know your status

Not all STIs present symptoms.
Get screened regularly at the university health center or nearby clinics.

Talk about sexual health

Before getting physically involved, speak openly about testing and protection.

Consent is essential

Consent must be clear, ongoing, and can be withdrawn at any time.
If the person is under the influence of alcohol or drugs and cannot consent, do not proceed.

5. Support Resources in USA

• Police / Fire / Medical: 911

• Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988

• Crisis Text Line: envie HOME para 741741

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

• RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673

• SAMHSA Helpline: 1-800-662-4357